http://healthy.jeffjsnider.com/2013/10/02/identity-boon-advantage/ I used to be unhealthily overweight. I'm well on my way to being healthy. Wed, 13 Dec 2023 23:46:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.1 http://healthy.jeffjsnider.com/2013/10/02/identity-boon-advantage/#comment-259 Thu, 03 Oct 2013 15:52:22 +0000 http://healthy.jeffjsnider.com/?p=151#comment-259 Paradigm shift? (I enjoy your blog, by the way!)

]]> http://healthy.jeffjsnider.com/2013/10/02/identity-boon-advantage/#comment-257 Thu, 03 Oct 2013 05:49:39 +0000 http://healthy.jeffjsnider.com/?p=151#comment-257 jeff, outside your brain must be inside mine, because it made perfect sense to me. i understand what you are experiencing in my own sphere of identity ‘crisis’. in fact i just wrote a post ‘who is that girl?’ on my blog this past week in which i talk about my current difficulty in recognizing myself in my new role and my husband’s new role and what i have left behind to be the now me. it is difficult to not identify who you are now by who you were in the past. i don’t really think it can be done and you wouldn’t want it to be. i am so excited for your transformation because when people see you, they are not merely seeing the result of weight loss, but the reflected result of all of the work, discipline, and confidence that went into it that makes up this current you. love you brother!!

]]> http://healthy.jeffjsnider.com/2013/10/02/identity-boon-advantage/#comment-256 Thu, 03 Oct 2013 05:36:03 +0000 http://healthy.jeffjsnider.com/?p=151#comment-256 It makes perfect sense. And you weren’t *always* the fattest guy in the room. I was in the same room as you on some occasions (not many) and I had to have beat you. HAD TO HAVE! I don’t have much, give this to me.

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